Don’t you just love the holidays?
It must have been a week ago, when I was walking around the stores of the Battlefield Mall and noticed a young boy around the age of nine years on the floor, crying his poor heart out. His parents were right beside him patting him to get up. I could clearly see their frustration, but they were too helpless about the situation and all the curious eyes around. Which leads to the question; What do you think about this phenomenon known as the holidays? Should I tell my child to believe in Santa? Should I raise his expectations with bigger gifts each year? Should I stop emptying my pockets at the stores that make me accumulate more debt? Too bad we can’t avoid that headache.
We spend so much time looking for the perfect gift, looking for sales thinking that we are getting bargains, but in reality we may be paying the same price without a sale; and after all that, we either get a gift that we don’t like, or better yet we give a gift that someone else hates.
I personally hate December. I can’t stand all the congestion in the stores, it drives me nuts looking for a parking, I hate it that we remember the poor and homeless for two weeks, and after that we forget about them until the next December. And don’t forget the crying children in the mall that want their parents to buy them gifts for Christmas.
I usually blame it on culture shock, but it’s really very simple, I didn’t grow up with a tree or the countless gifts. I grew up knowing Christmas was when our family came together with our extended clan for a good meal and lots of laughter and fun. And when they left, you’d say, “That was fun I can’t wait for next year”. Therefore, I find the expectations that are imposed on me very overwhelming.
While Decembers make me sick, Christmas is the one day that I love; the birth of Jesus Christ is what every Christian loves to celebrate. I just love the emotions brought about on this day and enjoy the simplicity of the moment. Christmas day signifies that January is right around the corner, hence more sun than gloom.